secret // the pierces
got a secret, can you keep it?
swear this one you’ll save
better lock it in your pocket, taking this one to the grave
if i show you then i know you won’t tell what i said
'cause two can keep a secret if one of them is dead
"I am a big girl. A voluptuous, curvy, dress-wearing lesbian. I love my body; it’s the only one I’ll ever have. I eat a lot of greens and work out and drink gin martinis and put M&Ms in my froyo and sometimes I don’t do anything but watch Project Runway. I am allowed to look sexy, feel sexy, and be in love. I am worthy of all of those things, and so are you. Own your good and bad, and all the scary parts that you’ve been covering up because it is yours and no amount of judgement can tell you how to love your body. In the words of Sonya Renee, the body is not an apology. You are magic. “
Surprisingly, perfectionists are often procrastinators, as they can tend to think “I don’t have the right skills or resources to do this perfectly now, so I won’t do it at all.”
Microwaved frozen dinner at 9:30 is still dinner. It is still food. It still counts. It is good, and I am strong. Tomorrow I will try for earlier. That’s all I can do.